Know When to Walk Away

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Elijah knew when to run, but I was happy to just walk away…

I LIKE the TIME that GOD HELPS ME me THINK. 

Today I witnessed a fender bender scrape. First I thought I could keep going but then I thought maybe I should stop in case he needed a witness, even though it looked pretty clear to me: the driver in the back is always at fault. Wasn’t even in my lane, but I stopped anyway. So in minimum processing time, I decided to stop. Yes, they stopped. I stepped out and the back party (offender) stepped out and was questioning why the guy in front stopped (um, because he was merging and had a yield).  The window of the front car opened, and the guy was not pleased. Just quiet. The offender in back kept yacking: ‘Why did you stop so fast? Why didn’t you just keep going?’ Honestly I could see there was no sorry coming, just arguing when you’re trying to put the blame on somebody else. But then I smelled the fumes of a somewhat legal illegal substance from the front car. These days it is sad, and dangerous. So I thought: even if the cops could be called, that the front driver (not in the wrong) was probably not gonna call because… Hmmm… 

I got the sense that it was time to walk away. I did ask, of the front car driver, if he needed me to stay (like as a witness) and he waved me off, gave me a thumbs up. I walked away.

Good. I walked away.

It’s like that Kenny Roger’s song: “you got to know when to hold them, know when to fold them, know when to walk away, know when to run.” – I never felt like it was time to run and I was never in fear. I just processed fast that it was probably best to go. Probably they worked it out without my presence. I felt as though the Lord was helping my gut reaction, that it was time to go. Thanks Lord.

I do believe the Lord gives us times to ponder, then times to make big decisions, and TIME TO WALK AWAY, making no decisions except for letting another day worry about those later decisions... (ps the Lord will be there in the future to help too.)

There are other things and times where I had to walk away. And there will be in the future too. I appreciate we have the Lord’s counsel, especially when we don’t know everything going on. 

That’s life. We don’t have to make every decision. We certainly should take it one day at a time. We don’t have to solve every puzzle. We don’t have to even put all the puzzle pieces out on the board. We simply need to just listen to the Lord: “Where am I supposed to be today? Now? And where am I NOT?.”

Thank you Lord, TODAY, for the ‘yes, be here’, and especially for the NOT.

AMEN

TOMORROW IS ANOTHER DAY – to listen to God.

AMEN 

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Psalm 32 of David. A maskil.

Blessed is the one whose transgressions are forgiven, whose sins are covered. Blessed is the one whose sin the Lord does not count against them and in whose spirit is no deceit.

When I kept silent, my bones wasted away through my groaning all day long. For day and night your hand was heavy on me; my strength was sapped as in the heat of summer.

Then I acknowledged my sin to you and did not cover up my iniquity.

I said, “I will confess my transgressions to the Lord.” And you forgave the guilt of my sin.

Therefore let all the faithful pray to you while you may be found; surely the rising of the mighty waters will not reach them. You are my hiding place; you will protect me from trouble and surround me with songs of deliverance.

I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my loving eye on you. Do not be like the horse or the mule, which have no understanding but must be controlled by bit and bridle or they will not come to you. 

Many are the woes of the wicked, but the Lord’s unfailing love surrounds the one who trusts in him.

Rejoice in the Lord and be glad, you righteous; sing, all you who are upright in heart!

Elijah ran – God helped. 

1 Kings 19:3-10

New International Version – UK

Elijah was afraid and ran for his life. When he came to Beersheba in Judah, he left his servant there, while he himself went a day’s journey into the wilderness. He came to a broom bush, sat down under it and prayed that he might die. ‘I have had enough, Lord,’ he said. ‘Take my life; I am no better than my ancestors.’ Then he lay down under the bush and fell asleep.

All at once an angel touched him and said, ‘Get up and eat.’ He looked around, and there by his head was some bread baked over hot coals, and a jar of water. He ate and drank and then lay down again.

The angel of the Lord came back a second time and touched him and said, ‘Get up and eat, for the journey is too much for you.’ So he got up and ate and drank. Strengthened by that food, he travelled for forty days and forty nights until he reached Horeb, the mountain of God. There he went into a cave and spent the night.

And the word of the Lord came to him: ‘What are you doing here, Elijah?’

He replied, ‘I have been very zealous for the Lord God Almighty….

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