Matthew 18:1-5 NIV – The Greatest in the Kingdom of Heaven
At that time the disciples came to Jesus and asked, “Who, then, is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?” He called a little child to him, and placed the child among them. And he said: “Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Therefore, whoever takes the lowly position of this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. And whoever welcomes one such child in my name welcomes me.
Mark 10:13-16 NIV – The Little Children and Jesus
People were bringing little children to Jesus for him to place his hands on them, but the disciples rebuked them. When Jesus saw this, he was indignant. He said to them, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these. Truly I tell you, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it.” And he took the children in his arms, placed his hands on them and blessed them.
SERMON
I am appreciative that we are in the Stories of Love section of our sermon series about LOVE – Love is God and God is Love – and we get to talk about how love transforms us as people and guides us as followers, sometimes herds us as wayward sheep – or cats – hard to herd cats – and how LOVE chases after us – like the one lost sheep – and how Love renews us.
Love protects, trusts, hopes and perseveres – YES!
Today we think of FAITH LIKE A CHILD – how Jesus shows us LOVE – shows us HOW to love. And asks us to come to Him like children – (and I will tell you the conclusion of this sermon at the very beginning – Jesus love requires that we love Him – love one another – and we are to follow His example.)
**And in speaking about how God is Love – God requires us to be reborn as His Children – to more fully understand His Love – and when we are HIS CHILDREN we will call Him OUR FATHER – even “ABBA” crying out to Him – He is able to fully apply His Plan and His ways and we are to know that His ways are beyond our understanding – He is God and we are not – but He wants to give us all He’s God Got!.
We have heard of the wonderful passages this morning of being children called to Jesus visiting in a house – likely Peter’s house some scholars say – and Jesus wanting those children to come to Him freely – wanting us to come – and well – for good reason…
I would think that Jesus humanly was weary from the long roads – walking all the time – and seeing people who didn’t understand Him as Savior, let alone God, and so this was a breath of fresh air for Jesus = the children who just wanted to come and be present.
Our gospel of Wisdom from disciple John, who himself was but an older child of perhaps 14 – in his teenage formative years when Jesus walked the earth, gives us great lessons. John tells us that Jesus does want us to be born as CHILDREN of God – in the first chapter speaks of Jesus – the true Light – who gives light to every man coming into the world.
10 He was in the world, and the world was made through Him, and the world did not know Him. 11 He came to His own, and His own did not receive Him. 12 But as many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, to those who believe in His name: 13 who were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God.
TO be born of God is truly the blessings of being of the realization that we are called into that joy of childhood – not to be un-informed or reckless – but into a JOY of childhood to know that God is our Father and we can come to Him with our needs and our hopes – and we come to Him to follow His Ways… Some of us come willingly and some hesitantly and it is a sacrifice to give up our own ways and our own agendas.
We come to God to guide us and to be raised up on spiritual milk – hopefully getting to eat solid food too – of spirituality – and may we know that when we come, we are going to be nurtured – God does not hold back – He shares and shares and shares. And yet, in this analogy of children and babies – the one thing God does NOT want us to be – weaned – not weaned from His advice, His plan, His narrow path. God does not want us to be separated from Him and think we can do this life thing on our own. Walking yes – but not crawling. God does not want us looking for other gods, even finding worth in other people – God does not wanting us to go for other sustenance, other fields to graze in. God wants us as HIS CHILDREN – what does love require? To worship ONE and ONLY ONE GOD.
God comes after us as sheep – or lost children – and rejoices in us. God WANTS and God KNOWS that He is our best bet in life – which is no bet at all – God wants us to know that His beckoning is our blessing.
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Jesus called to those little children – in the scripture reading – and pointed to them as an example and said: “Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Therefore, whoever takes the lowly position of this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. And whoever welcomes one such child in my name welcomes me.”
Mark’s chapter reminds us that older people were trying to get time with Jesus – with demands and with hopes – and maybe even with an agenda – and yet the little children probably just wanted to come and give hugs and give love and get love.
GIVE LOVE AND GET LOVE – no agenda – how much more we could have JOY with going to Jesus with no agenda or at least putting our agenda last – go with PRAISE – then with petitions for others – then for ourselves. JOY is found in serving Jesus Others Yourself.
And those children – children can sense the blessings of someone who cares – and if you have been blessed with being in children’s ministry, or children’s daycare – you would appreciate that the pure “pick me up” of love – that is the best… Jesus in this case made sure that He demonstrated that LOVE requires patience – it requires pause – a lack of judgement and LOVE – LOVE IS taking the moment to LOVE the little children and God-forbid don’t ever lead them astray.
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Just this summer, I loved my VBS helping – a little girl and her sister were calling out to me in the parking lot from their mom’s car on the way in – and they then gave me a hug – middle of the week – picked up my spirits ENOURMOUSLY… Jesus lets the little children have the sweet spirits and we appreciate that… and I had to NOT rush into the building – NOT take on the agenda – and ALLOW that love overflow – and give it back – no agenda…
I love having my mom here for the weekend and a joy for me is to see her stop and interact and have conversations with the little children – just like yesterday we met a couple with 2 small children – and the mom needed to talk about the life with kids. My mom loves people – as you can imagine – and as I can also attest that the children have the most interesting things to say and they LOVE it when you take the time to listen to them… what do THEY want to say !!!
The gospel of Mark says “people were bringing little children to Jesus for him to place his hands on them” – no handout there but a hand-up of blessing – of connecting to the Almighty aspect of Almighty God – the parents there were acknowledging that God is of love asking for a blessing. And Although just then we saw the other disciples, who became indignant, being realistically real with their agenda – common surely for them to be often realistically real because they had the eyes of their hearts shaded and blocked – the disciples rebuked not just the children but the parents of the children as well – and yet JESUS FOUND A WAY – JESUS is the direct connection to God because He is also GOD – and just as the curtain tore – there is no barrier between us and God. Jesus IS the Way.
** Jesus was then and now truly standing up for love: “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these. Truly I tell you, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it.”
Let us dig deeper into what that means – to receive like a child – receive not just gifts of toys and candy and all that sticky stuff like at the fair we enjoyed this weekend – cotton candy and snow cones – but to receive LOVE – and REAL nourishment. For us to receive like a child is to be dependent upon God – not have any cash flow – to not have even the height to order at the takeout windows even – to be a child might mean to not understand when too much is too much – Children especially babies are TOTALLY dependent upon others – especially their parents – their loved ones… They can come to their father God – for everything and for love.
Do we come as a child, to Jesus, hungry? Well, yes – I remember my son being born 21 years ago now and within the first half hour he had already drank 4 ounces of formula in the nursery – the nurse told me LATER she thought he just looked so hungry, and wow did he drink!!! It was OK with me – because I was in the middle of an emergency C-section – and I did nurse him later – but for this second child (whom I called my auto-pilot baby) I allowed a bottle at night of formula – because he just seemed so hungry – thus my wawa convenience store bill nowadays, LOL, that he is almost 21! Still HUNGRY!!!!!!
Is the Kingdom of God for those who are HUNGRY? Like growing children? Well – yes! There is said to be the biggest heavenly banquet waiting for us – And our hunger nowadays is truly the hunger that food won’t satisfy – that the Lord will and does satisfy… What about thirst like for the woman at the well – Jesus said – Drink from the Living Water and you will never thirst again…
Do we come as a child, to Jesus, scared? Or sometimes disappointed?
Surely our hope in the Lord recognizes that stuff around us is stuff – the world and looking to the world for motivation and sustenance is broken – one could say the optimist in us would be depressed but rather we should approach God with realization that we don’t know everything – we don’t know how and why the world’s brokenness will play out – and honestly just click on our seatbelts and ask “Jesus to take the wheel”…
Do we come as a child, to Jesus, joyfully? JOY – isn’t that the best emotion and God-given satiation of our souls? The JOY – not necessarily happiness but JOY of understanding faith.
Do we come as a child, to Jesus, needing guidance? – do we come because we need HIM – realize He is our Way – our truth – our life – our light AND life…
And Do we come as a child to Jesus to FOLLOW Him, (yes that is the conclusion of this series of learnings from how we are to approach Jesus – to follow Him) To LEARN from Him, and give it all we have – even if it hurts? We learn from Jesus to see past the hurt…
I have a story of little 4-year-old “B”, cutest little girl, this was many years ago now – wow!
4-yr old B, I got to witness Jesus in her… a little 3 year old boy, who truly truly didn’t know any better, really was not socialized much in a group setting like school, yanked her hair so hard it pulled out a big clump. I was there – this was a VBS closing middle of the week – they were up front and we were going to get started… OH UGH – to hear the scream, see the clump of hair in the hand, and to see the crew comfort the girl. It was SO painful. B cried so much…. [honestly I think I can still hear her painful cries 10 years later]
I called Mom, and her Grandma who had brought her emailed later to say B cried on and off the rest of the day… The little girl said she didn’t want to go back to VBS because she didn’t want to get hurt again, but she wanted to be with her friends and it was breaking her heart not to be with them. So, her family urged her to come back to VBS, and told her we would put in extra help, which we did.
Grandma replied by email to essentially say: “I don’t blame that or really anyone for what happened – at the age of these little ones anything can happen. B has never really been hurt by another child, B loves making and having friends so that maybe why she is so upset over this and she also told us that when he pulled her hair – it broke her heart… I have always taught the kids not to be quitters, so I will bring her in the morning”
And Grandma made sure that her hair was tied back in a ponytail. SO proactive.
I replied: please tell her how happy her crew leaders and I would be to see her come back…
And yes, Praise God, she came back the next day with the biggest smile on her face. Praise Praise Praise.
For the bible lesson in VBS that day, we talked about that God has the power to heal… “He heals the broken hearted and bandages their wounds”. The next day we were to teach that God has the power to forgive. B showed the world that aspect of God by showing up.
I was told from her crew leaders that at the beginning of that next day she sat down next to this little hair-pulling boy, and said directly to him “DON’T pull my hair” and then she gave him the biggest hug…. if that’s not showing Jesus LOVE and how Jesus IS forgiving LOVE, I don’t know what is… She was being Jesus at four years old… She knew it from her family – and she KNEW it from the strong Holy Spirit inside of her – to demonstrate LOVE – even in the pain. I saw Jesus in her – and I saw how Jesus smiled to be with friends.
Jesus said and says: “I LOVE you, I don’t judge you”, and “go and sin no more”. This little girl said to the boy: “I forgive you” with her smile, “I love you” with her hug, and “go and sin no more” with her realistic words of teaching. Did she forget? I don’t know…. But that day she forgave…. just like Jesus said, “They don’t know what they do, Father forgive them… “
And that’s what Love requires: Not judge, Forgive, Love… And show it to the little children….
Grandma emailed again after VBS: “[Thank you Debbie, I am so truly happy that she forgave him. Thank you for writing about B and what happened to show how Jesus works amongst us. B is very outgoing child and loves everyone around her and she sees the good in everyone, children or adults, even in the baddest of people she still sees the good them. She actually can turn a frown upside down in a matter of seconds with her pure sweet innocence.]”
Yes, we can Come to Jesus – and do the best we can to follow.
Let us remember that LOVE comes from God – way above – Heavenly Agape Love.
May Jesus continue to shine through each of us and shine to and through our children this way – today and always!!!
AMEN
Please pray with me – Lord, Your Ways are above our ways – please help us see thru the fog of our lives and the rough spots and keep engaging with You in love that WILL shine thru. Thank you Lord for these stories of LOVE shown – and may we always keep loving – and know Your Love, Lord. AMEN




