So – here is my blessing of being able to share the sermon this morning:

Matthew 5:43-48 NKJV – Love Your Enemies

“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven; for He makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust. For if you love those who love you, what reward have you? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? And if you greet your brethren only, what do you do more than others? Do not even the tax collectors do so? Therefore you shall be perfect, just as your Father in heaven is perfect.

Matthew 5:13-14 NKJV – Believers Are Salt and Light

“You are the salt of the earth; but if the salt loses its flavor, how shall it be seasoned? It is then good for nothing but to be thrown out and trampled underfoot by men. You are the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hidden.”

Jeremiah 17:7-8 NKJV

“Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, and whose hope is the Lord. For he shall be like a tree planted by the waters, which spreads out its roots by the river, and will not fear when heat comes; but its leaf will be green, and will not be anxious in the year of drought, nor will cease from yielding fruit

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I love digging into Lots of Scriptures today – and start with this advice from Paul: Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity. Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.” Colossians 4:5-6

I realized a while ago that I was never satisfied with how I approached MLK Jr day, which we just had last Monday, because I didn’t think about it or about him much – it often just blends in with regular days, our crazy busy days within a crazy busy season of life. I revisit today for learning about something I didn’t know – that MLK Jr was a preacher – a man of God – and so was his father and his grandfather – MLK JR also comes from Irish stock as well as African stock – and his father MLK Sr put MLK Jr into a seminary……

By revisiting a 1957 sermon by Dr King Jr about LOVING YOUR ENEMIES, I am thankful to know that he was a preacher and that we get to talk about Jesus and how He advises us to live. Thanks to modern technology we have wonderful websites, we have transcripts and audio of many sermons and speeches from MLK Jr’s life philosophy. But of course, thanks to Jesus, we have a Word that endures forever.

What a great excerpt I was led to find from this 1957 MLK Jr sermon – that Jesus says we are to love our enemies because love is redemptive goodwill, because God loves everyone and because you have agape in your soul. As hate only brings hate, the redemptive strength of LOVE means that when you are presented with the opportunity to defeat your enemy, that you DON’T do it. When we love, we see God’s image in each person – in our enemies too. … If we remember that God is behind all the drive to love, that God IS Love, we also will remember that love will not, and can never fail.

Especially I like the analogy MLK Jr gives about dimming the car headlights – that we are all driving thru life – and so often we will encounter strife and people who might even be against us or maybe will just ignore us in disrespect – this is where we need to dim the car headlights of retaliation and be courteous and BE THE LOVE…  Love has a redemptive power because God is Love. We should all be NOT satisfied with the hate in the world when we are commanded to LOVE.

These are excerpts from one MLK Jr. sermon:

“Loving Your Enemies.” – it’s so basic to me – because it is a part of my basic philosophical and theological orientation—the whole idea of love, the whole philosophy of love. In the gospel as recorded by Saint Matthew, we read these very arresting words flowing from the lips of our Lord and Master: [Jesus said] Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them that despitefully use you; that ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven.”

MLK Jr continues – these are great words, words lifted to cosmic proportions. And over the centuries, many persons have argued that this is an extremely difficult command. Many would go so far as to say that it just isn’t possible to move out into the actual practice of this glorious command. They would go on to say that this is just additional proof that Jesus was an impractical idealist who never quite came down to earth. So the arguments abound. But far from being an impractical idealist, Jesus has become the practical realist. The words of this text glitter in our eyes with a new urgency. Far from being the pious injunction of a utopian dreamer, this command is an absolute necessity...]

“[Now let me hasten to say that Jesus was very serious when he gave this command; he wasn’t playing. He realized that it’s hard to love your enemies – difficult to love those persons who seek to defeat you, those persons who say evil things about you. –  painfully hard, pressingly hard. – But We have the Christian and moral responsibility to seek how we can live out this command, . Agape – a love that seeks nothing in return. It is an overflowing love; the love of God – And when you rise to love on this level, you begin to love men, not because they are likeable, but because God loves them. You look at every man, and you love him because you know God loves him. And he might be the worst person you’ve ever seen.]

“[And this is what Jesus means, … You refuse to do anything that will defeat an individual, because you have agape in your soul. – you love the individual who does the evil deed, while hating the deed that the person does. ]

“[why?. … I think this was at the very center of Jesus’ thinking: that hate for hate only intensifies the existence of hate and evil in the universe. If I hit you and you hit me and I hit you back and you hit me back – that goes on ad infinitum – It just never ends. Somewhere somebody must have a little sense, and that’s the strong person. The strong person is the person who can cut off the chain of hate, the chain of evil… and inject into the universe that strong and powerful element of LOVE.]

MLK Jr continues: [I think I mentioned before that sometime ago my brother and I were driving one evening to Chattanooga, Tennessee, from Atlanta. He was driving the car. And for some reason the drivers were very discourteous that night. They didn’t dim their lights; hardly any driver that passed by dimmed his lights. And I remember very vividly, my brother A.D. looked over and in a tone of anger said: “I know what I’m going to do. The next car that comes along here and refuses to dim the lights, I’m going to fail to dim mine and pour them on in all of their power.” And I looked at him right quick and said: “[Oh no, don’t do that. There’d be too much light on this highway, and it will end up in mutual destruction for all. Somebody[‘s] got to have some sense on this highway.”]

“[Somebody must have sense enough to dim the lights – Somebody must have morality enough to cut off the chain of hate and the chain of evil in the universe. You do that by LOVE.]

“[There’s another reason why you should love your enemies, and that is because hate distorts the personality of the hater. ….  Jesus says, “Love your enemies.” – that love has within it a redemptive power. And there is a power that eventually transforms individuals. That’s why Jesus says, “Love your enemies.” Because if you hate your enemies, you have no way to redeem and to transform your enemies. –  LOVE builds up and is creative – hate tears down and is destructive. So love your enemies…”] http://ipoet.com/ARCHIVE/BEYOND/King-Jr/Loving-Your-Enemies. html https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sermons_and_speeches_of_Martin_Luther_King_Jr.#Sermons

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Ah – I love that analogy – thank you Dr King – Dimming our headlights – and demonstrating this action too – it is portraying LOVE to those who watch us. This doesn’t mean we don’t stand up for peace and for awareness and for justice – but it means we extend mercy and grace – and act like the person Jesus wants us to be, best we can.

It also takes the burden off our shoulders and onto Jesus who wants to accept our burdens – I was even thinking it is like a flare up of tendonitis –  tennis elbow – it is OK but annoying – but you put the strap just above where the tendons attach to the elbow and it takes the pressure off – yes dimming the headlights…

Can we dim our headlights (me included) towards Drama? Self-pity?

What about dimming our headlights towards Anger? or Pain? Even the fear of D e a t h ,? Can we accept it while trying to avoid it? And because of it, can we work it into our consciousness of making the most of every day

How about dimming our headlights towards reacting against rough or annoying people? –  What if your gentleness satiated or reduces strife of a situation, takes the boiling pot off the stove.

Are we scared seeing someone approach us (having that I better cross the street fear – Fear? Adrenaline kicks in, fight or flight  – wouldn’t it be best if we let God decide – think positive thoughts, stay ready for the interaction and even SMILE at the stranger.  Jesus said, recorded in Matthew: “You are the salt of the earth; –  “You are the light of the world. – Let your light so shine before men”….

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I’m going to tell you of a time when God preserved my life – forgive me for using me as an example  – but it fits here I believe – Jesus made me dim my retaliatory reactionary “want to answer back” mode that I could have slipped into.  I’m going to tell you about  a road rage incident – yes I was partially in the wrong, but if it had happened it would have been pure accident – IF it was raining – dusk darkness – merging roads  – by the mall – everyone has to navigate weird lane changes – I had  sense of a car and quickly unmerged – but he was a grey car – no headlights – i could not see him – I did not hit him – sped up to merge and turn – but he followed me RAGED – cut me off – passed me- stopped his car blocking me – screaming at me – i locked my door – I saw his bumper sticker “—local gun club” – just kept saying “I’m sorry, I’m sorry”.- he went away- he was more made because he couldn’t get a rise out of me… I survived because God gave me the gifted words of “I’m sorry” – Whether I was in the wrong or not – it was what flew out of my mouth over and over. He made it much worse but I had the gift of those words: “I’m sorry”

His response of Flying off the handle? I forgave him on the spot looking him in the face, looking at him – BIG – it was probably what they call “roid rage”… And God made me DIM MY HEADLIGHTS OF RESPONSE…  thank You Lord. Lived for another day. 

I lived to tell that this is a true Scripture – a Proverb:  A soft answer turns away wrath, But a harsh word stirs up anger.   The non-gentleman but still a child of God – his anger burnt out at that moment when he returned to his car. When I recounted this story  in hindsight, my lunch-bunch at work started saying “oh you should have X, Y, Z” in escalation… (it’s like all those public comments on a facebook post of people saying something they themselves would not have done)…

Well, I am glad I simply backed down, locked up, moved on. You had to be there – his self-rage and BROKENNESS lit up my eyes of pain, we need to see and sadly work with the brokenness in people that we see. I saw his brokenness.  I thank God the Light of Jesus is even brighter and discerning and gave me protection that day by simply me saying ‘I’m Sorry” as the defusing of the situation… A soft answer turns away wrath, But a harsh word stirs up anger.

And there are so many more of the Proverbs that bring peace into our ears: wise words and observations mostly written from Solomon – gifts from God totally – we don’t have to be the retaliation if God gets the final word and He does. And we don’t have to say “haha karma”, as we are often tempted to say – because God IS really teaching us all – and God wants all to come to His love – He does not want anyone to perish.  So these proverbs can help us live with things – and dim our headlights in life:

•  The eyes of the Lord are in every place, Keeping watch on the evil and the good.

• Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans.

• The Lord works out everything to its proper end— even the wicked for a day of disaster.

• Starting a quarrel is like breaching a dam; so drop the matter before a dispute breaks out.

• The tongue of the wise uses knowledge rightly, but the mouth of fools pours forth foolishness.
• The Lord detests all the proud of heart.  Be sure of this: They will not go unpunished.

• When the Lord takes pleasure in anyone’s way, he causes their enemies to make peace with them.

• Whoever gives heed to instruction prospers, and blessed is the one who trusts in the Lord.

• The wise in heart are called discerning, and gracious words promote instruction.

• The one who has knowledge uses words with restraint,  and whoever has understanding is even-tempered.         A cheerful heart is good medicine

•  Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.

I want to close with   A great devotion we read at our Jesus Calling group last week – of Jesus’s saying: Remember, I am with you- – now and always. Rehearsing your troubles results in experiencing them many times, whereas you are meant to go through them only when they actually occur. Do not multiply your suffering in this way! Instead, come to Me, and relax in My peace. I will strengthen you and prepare you for this day, transforming your fear into confident TRUST.

Yes Jesus is ALWAYS saying: “I will be with you. I will not leave you or forsake you. Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the LORD your God is with you wherever you go.”

I am thankful that knowing God takes care of our battles, We CAN dim our own headlights and follow His Light instead.

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Amen and let us pray:

Lord – thank You – thank You for guidance – thank you for living each day in the present – thank you for energy and for leaders who remind us to look to you and your advice – your saves – your hope.

Thank you for Your Grace and forgiveness that we may extend it to others. We don’t know where the others are coming from but we know they are Your children. Love is Redemptive – Love will Win all – Love is You Lord and You are Love.  Lord we love You.

Lord, we praise your True and Almighty Name.

Amen.